|Letting go| ♥

by Hansini

“One of the worst feelings in life is holding onto someone you know you need to let go of.”

We all often confuse “letting go” with “giving up”..
Letting go is NOT giving up. It means you are strong enough to let go ..to let of that one person who you think is holding you together.
But in reality,
its only you!
The problem is that we get too attached, too fast.
We love too much, too easily.
And once you are attached to someone ,once you love someone so much, you tend to do everything to please them.You give over too many chances to too many people, out of which ,very frankly most of them don’t deserve it.
You are left broken.
You spend your life waiting for them. You are confused whether to let go or not. 
And when you do decide to let go, something stops you and
you say
“I just can’t let go”.

Yes,Its hard to let go. . .moreover,just the thought of letting go of someone I love scares me.
There comes a time in everyone’s life where you have to press the pause button ,stop whatever it is that you are doing and think “is that person really worth it?..”
Be it your friend or the person you love.Are they worth so much of pain?
Are they worth the tears you cry over them?
Each person would hurt you one time or the other but youhave to decide who is worth it and who s not!
If it hurts too much and you think that you cant take it anymore even after you tried so much, then let go!

Its not about finding someone who won’t find with you or make you sad , or mad.
Its about finding the person who would still be standing there wiping the tears away, holding you in their arms after a fight ,
and the one who will NEVER leave, no matter how hard things get..

Be strong because it will get better. It may be stormy now but it can’t rain forever.”